Fan Theories

Name: vince
Theory:

i think this song is about charlize and stephan' s break up. i think he loved her like crazy and miss her.


Name: MadHatter
Theory:

When I look at these lyrics I see sadness. I see his relationship with Charlize. I see a life that is out of control, and not really what Stephan had envisaged, and yet it is the life of a celebrity, and a rock-star. So, what did he expect, he thinks, except that what he really wants is her, and he's afraid. I seems he felt that this wasn't going to work, aor maybe he wanted to be convinced it could. It appears that what they had was their physical love more than anything, and that love was more powerful than his desire for the goals he had set for himself. Lying around, making love, sleeping with the dogs, aching for one another, living for the conversations that reminded each other of their commitment and wanting was stronger than his ambitions, except that Stephan is a realist, and knew that this wasn't enough to carry him through life, pay the bills, or even carry this relationship. It was a catch 22. He had to be more to keep her, and to feel good about himself. He had to keep working to be a success, but in doing that it was driving him away from her, because she and he needed to be together in order to keep it together. That was impossible, because she too feared that she needed to keep driving in order to stay on top, and felt like her time was limited to now. She couldn't just follow him, make love, and make babies, or she would potentially be forgotten as well. It is so sad. If only they could really trust in the power of their love for one another. Maybe there is no such thing. Maybe love is temporary, and then necessity, and loyalty, and responsibility to one another take over, but maybe even within that becomes a different kind of love that becomes more powerful than the physical longings, and then again about the physical longings too. It doesn't have to stop. Charlize and Stephan can become different, and more even if their not celebrities. That can't last anyway. But, they can be closer, and help each other with new ambitions.


Name: Pepper Mint
Theory:

This is a man who is in awe of his luck or good fortune. He is in the presence of sheer beauty and greatness. He speaks to how quickly and far gossip and papparazzi can take someone. Life changes in a moment. Yee Ha! But watch out Lives that are separate need reassurance and steamy phone conversations can hold one for only a little while until the next encounter. Winter suggests endings, and Summer flowers may mean it was at the stage where growth may have meant rewards, but things ended before they were reaped. The experience was unique and will never be repeated. His heart still skips a beat to see her, hear of her. He hears his music. It fills him with delight, but is embarrassed by his pride and pleasure. He loves long involved romantic interludes He hates the pretentiousness of the promotion and partys. She's not like that. But he must be careful not to insult this way of life. He's so busy being part of this life, he forgets what he stands for and what his mission was. She's determined, and wants him to be with her, and he wants to believe in forever, but is it forever? He is only what he maintains, not what he was. In feeling insecure we reveal ourselves, which makes us feel unattractive and unworthy, and sometimes we stop being the pillar, and that breaks us in a relationship that is already fragile He was protective, and could predict what was in the future. She feels urgency He sees more to her than what she is now There is too much to juggle He's watched his world rule him, and it's too late She's tough. It's over. Sing the blues.


Name: Ajia
Email: CarWreckKid@aol.com
Theory:

I don't have anything too detailed to say, but IMHO this song is so obviously about Charlize and their break-up. It's kind of sad, but at the same time it seems like it has a "never been so alone, and I've never been so alive" feel to it.


Name: Melissa
Email: missy_comet@yahoo.com
Theory:

I think this song is about Stephan's relationship with Charlize. It is obviously about a movie star that he has had a relationship with. The first lines bring to mind Charlize, "I can't believe it Those sapphire eyes Brilliant girl with the famous thighs And the cameras flash and then we are stars We're laughing in the back of chauffeured cars"

The song is about a an ill fated romance with a movie star that couldn't last because the two people, Charlize and Stephan, were married to their careers. He can only look back and wonder where she went, " Where did you go now?"


Name: B Rok
Email: homeboy_g@hotmail.com
Theory:

(This is an awesome song, the music is stellar! TOny is awesome!!!)

I think the concept of this song is pretty simple. The negativity of fame catching up and affecting a person. Fame has taken this person out of control and took over their life without them knowing it. Where did you go> and is this my life? are constant themes. The person just realizes that the celebrity life style has taken over and maybe they realize that it has taken them out of control. It is so sureal. This cant be my life, butit is.


Name: david la conte
Email: dslfourm2002@hotmail.com
Theory:

i think that Stephan Jenkins is speaking of how the demon of being famous and being such a rock idol and all you forgetwho you really are. like when he speaks of the L.A parties in thephony lands and the bony grabsstalking about the new rock life style and he is saying he fogets himself the old self, and he brings out the point of still sleeping with the dogs in the bed and that he is still him self and fame and idols are not changing him. and all the beginning with the the laughing in the back of chauffered cars and the cameras are flashing, like speaking of the media taking pictures of the famous star, figuratively speaking Stephan Jenkins. and the thought when he says well thats not my life well maybe it is. saying he doese not know how is he suppossed to live. but at the end when saying he would change this song now if he could in the sleekness of your blood he is speaking of if he could change this song but he can not put the things he really wants to put.


Name: david la conte
Email: dslfourm2002@hotmail.com
Theory:

the song is about stephan jenkins fogetting himself in the demon of being a rock star and the lifestyle he lives and it is not him. but maybe it is. he is just confused in this dark dirty little freaky song


Name: Marcy
Email: marcy_21_poke@hotmail.com
Theory:

I saw 3EB in philly and before they played this song Stephan explained that it's about what a dick he was to his ex-girlfriend(Charlize)last year.


Name: matt medeiros
Email: darko34@cs.com
Theory:

" i can't believe it those sapphire eyes, brilliant girl w/ the famous thighs..."

this is about his (gorgeous) ex love Charlize theoron. i saw 3eb in concert and he said the song was about how he was falling apart last summer, a.k.a forgetting himself. he didn't say te reason behind it, but i read the lyrics and know they broke up around that time so isn't pretty obvious?


Name: Tina
Email: sundragon2000@aol.com

"I can't believe it Those sapphire eyes Brilliant girl with the famous thighs And the cameras flash and then we are stars We're laughing in the back of chauffeured cars" This song is definately about Charlize! It's obvious he still feels for her.

Forget Myself

Could you believe it?
Those sapphire eyes
The brilliant girl with the famous thighs
Then camera clicks and then we are stars
We're laughing in the back of chauffeured cars
Phone call rings and your voice is desire
Then winter moves into summer fires
I promised you what's ours is ours
Somewhere backstage with Sean and Lars

I go crazy when you walk in the room
I laugh at myself with the girl in bloom
Gimme sex couldn't be too soon
All afternoon then
LA parties in the phony lands
Phony grabs with the manicured hands
I always thought you are pretty like a whip
I should've watched my step

Cuz I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
I keep forgetting myself and
I keep on forgetting myself

I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
Who am I?
We both don't know
Time ticks by, where did it go?

You always knew where you were going to
So sweetly you said please come with you
The biggest fear running through my head
When you said you loved me you meant what you said

I was floating - did it go to my head?
When we still sleep with the dogs on the bed?
But the LA parties and the vodka fizz
This is not my life, or maybe it is?

And I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
I keep forgetting myself and
I keep on forgetting myself

I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
Who am I? We both don't know
Time ticks by, where did it go?

Oh I made you doubt me
Oh I you're better off without me

Think I'm looking over your shoulder
Cuz there's someone younger and you're feeling older
You're crazy and you never faded
Don't want to be so complicated
See my life come undone
I watch it go and let the damage run
I'd change this song now if I could
In the slickness of your blood

(yo yo Sabien Sabien)

I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
I keep forgetting myself and
I keep on forgetting myself (where did you go?)

I keep on forgetting myself
And I keep on forgetting myself
Who's that guy? I don't know.
Whoa whoa whoa where did you go?

Where did you go now?
Where did you go?
Where did you go?
Where did you go?
Where did you go?

Hello hello hello...

Song Info

Musicians:

Tony Fredianelli
Brad Hargreaves
Stephan Jenkins
Arion Salazar

Can Be Found On:

Out of the Vein, March 2003

Alternative Versions

These lyrics are not official in any way and have been translated from live performances of the song in the Summer of 2002. Stephan is one hard mo' fo' to understand on bootlegs.

Out Of The Vein, 2003

Band Comments:

"What a shithead I was last year to my ex-girlfriend...Yeah, it was my fault." - Stephan Jenkins at show in Cincinatti